Correct me guys if I'am wrong but this is something I threw in together after being a serial dater over the past years before settling down with my husband. I'm a bit of an old fashioned cow. I will never ask a guy out, no wonder I miss out on all the hot dudes throughout high school. Even when some of the girls were doing it I just couldn't. I always argue that if a guy likes me he should ask me out not the other way round. Or that I will not meet the parent until he ask me to marry him. Happened with my husband. When his parents came to Tokyo for a visit I decided not to meet them because we were only dating at that time. Which scored points with his parents even though they find it a bit strange. But when it comes to first impressions on a first date I'm the queen. Because I play by these simple rules every time. Now that I no longer use them I'm willing to share.
1. Tell a joke. Dirty jokes will always work. Even lame ones are cute. The idea here is just to make him laugh, at you or at your joke. What's for sure is, if you make him laugh he will remember you.
2. A natural look is always sexy. Don't overdo it. Men shy away from girls who try too hard on the first date. Just wear a touch of perfume, clean nails, clean hair that works all the time.
3. Order a cheeseburger. Again it's kinda laid back when a girl orders a quarter pounder. Real attractive too. Watching you eat your way through that without worry about calories it's truly sexy.
4. Push his buttons in a good way. It shows confidence. And that's totally hot.
5. Initiate a kiss. Nonchalantly out of the blue. Not those big dramatic movie kiss. A sweet kiss even on the cheek.
6. Engage in the moment. Stop constantly checking your phone, it shows that you are focused on him and its respectful to keep your phone use limited.
7. Be decisive. Men hate women who doesn't know what they would want for dinner, what they would want to do on a date. Propose ideas don't force them. But if he asked you a question be ready with an answer and don't go with "I don't know" or "I'll have anything you're having" or " up to you" but its ok to let him pick out the wine. Even if you're a wine expert.
8. Go home alone on your first date no matter how good things turn out. Even if he asked you home.
9. Go with your instincts but always remember to be laid back.
If all that doesn't work out for you I'm sorry you're just dating the wrong guy.
Xoxo
Maly
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